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It is polite to bow. Just how far
down you bow depends on the status
of the person in question ? you needn
' t get down on your hands and knees,
but a slight nod of the head is generally
appropriate. If you drink with seniors,
you should turn your shoulder sideways
and drink unless they allow you to
face to face each other. In any social
unit there are accepted rules of
behavior upheld. There are also norms
of behavior mandated by custom and
enforced by group pressure. An offender
faces no formal trial or sentence
for breach of etiquette; the penalty
lies in the disapproval of other
members of the group. Regardless
of its level of material culture,
any highly stratified society will
possess an etiquette in which every
person knows the behavior expected
from him toward others and from other
toward himself. Nonetheless, etiquette
remains active on royal or ceremonial
occasions and in the more formal
aspects of professional or communal
life. Since the framework and content
of the communities of which society
is formed are constantly changing,
the habits of etiquette can and do
change with them. |